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If my son's mother is violating a court order, mandating her to setup a schedule to let me see him, but she fails to do so and a warrant could possibly be put out for her arrest?
If she is breaking the law or a court order, I wouldn't sweat it, however make sure you don't have anything she could use against you..
No - do what you have to do. That woman is causing this by her intentional inaction.
My ex/boat anchor has been playing games with my 15 year old daughter for 9 months. I've held off doing anything only out of concern for my daughter. She sided with my wife when my wife left, and then found out her mother was having another affair.
absolutely not - there isn't even a hint of selfishness on your part here.
Sorry to hear about your situation bro but don't feet bad about it you have rights too, and you have the right to see your kid (specially if you have not meet your kid yet) and if his mother is violating a court order more rights to you, I hope things work out for ya!
you shouldnt feel bad. You have to do what you need to do to see your son. Dont sweat it bekuz if this was the other way around im pretty sure she would have done the same.
little boys need their dad plain and simple.
I didn't want to start another thread to post this video. I found this video funny and was looking for a thread to post it in. Take no offense FDA guy, trying to lighten the mood a bit and maybe help you relax and laugh a little bit.
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let me guess.... your also paying child support this entire time?We go back on July 3rd for a paternity hearing followup and for support. Not once have I doubted that my son was, in fact, mine, even though my ex did cheat on me during the pregnancy. I have a feeling that she may be putting off registering with supervised visitation until the week before we're due back in court, but that means another 2-4 weeks that is taken away from my son and I being able to spend time together. I violated the protection order and my ex saw me through that. It was a court order, which I violated, therefore I was arrested, charged, and am now facing the consequences. I don't think she realizes what could happen to her. I do believe a warrant will go out for her arrest, she'd be picked up by the state police, and charged with criminal contempt or something along those lines. She's one of those people who seems to think she can always weasel and lie her way out of any and every situation. I, however, sit around like a lame duck only because I'm waiting for her to take action on her part. She always used to tell me, "I can do this on my on. Me and my son don't need you." I guess that she was pissed and 'hurt' when she got served with court papers, but she left me with no choice. I'll be damned if I let someone take my son away from me. Even worse, she once asked if I was willing to give up all my rights as his father so that the guy she cheated on me with could take over.
let me guess.... your also paying child support this entire time?
So if she can do this without you.. can she do it without your financial support as well?
I would consider withholding payment, but i WOULDNT do this bc it makes you look bad again. do whatever it takes to look high and mighty in the face of the law. Id do whatever it takes to be apart of you sons life. the worst part is that as he ages, Im sure she will make you out to be the devil. It kinda sucks bc you are putting so much time and effort into something to which she will continuously ruin as long as she can. Sorry to hear this man.
just curious.. how old are you/ her?
I'd feel bad about it, but I'd want to see my kid too. None of us here should be trying to influence your decision imo. If you love the woman enough still to not want her in legal trouble, and also want to be able to have visitation rights, I hope you can convince her just to let you see your son without resistance on her part. I wish you good fortune in the matter.
You are at a spot where you can no longer worry about the consequences in regards to her. The question is do you wantI've made another difficult decision. I went to family court yesterday and filed a court order violation against my son's mother. I got granted supervised visitation over 2 weeks ago and followed up with the mediator several times since then. They've been keeping a log. My son's mother ended up contacting me online and flipped out. She said the police had just been at her house and served her, telling her that I had filed a petition and we not only have to go to court next Thursday, but on Wednesday as well. I don't know what excuse she's gonna try convincing the judge to believe, but 2 1/2 weeks is long enough for her to simply pick up the phone and call the mediator, so that I can begin seeing my son as soon as possible. She's really pissed off and I'm concerned, only because I know the judge in family court doesn't take too kindly to those who disobey his orders and I know what it feels like to be arrested, go to court, put in jail, etc. What possible consequences could my son's mother be facing?
You are at a spot where you can no longer worry about the consequences in regards to her. The question is do you want
to see your son, then by any legal means necessary....
Were you guys married?