Should I feel bad about this?
06-21-2008 01:52 AM
My son wouldn't have been possible without my ex. He's the only great thing that came out of that relationship. I'll always care about her. My feelings for her have been blinded due to her way of handling this whole situation. I just don't know what to think of her anymore. Not at this point. I just still can't believe that she did all of this to me. Worst of all, her parents are helping coaching her, so it sometimes feels as if it's me against the world. As I mentioned in an earlier post, I've tried being the nice guy for as long as possible, but I just can't do it anymore. The only way that I was gonna be able to see my son was going through the courts because then my legal parenthood is established and my rights as a father are protected by a court of law. My ex is now under obligations, whatever the court decides. I clearly have no problem obeying the court, even if I may end up disagreeing with some of their decisions. All I know is that I'll fight to the death for my son. I really don't like the idea of dragging my ex into court all the time, but she has left me no choice. I'm not too big on the idea of calling the police and having her arrested either, but her and her family did the same thing to me. She never stepped up to help me. She is, however, breaking the law and still trying to make it difficult for my son and I to be together. Once again, she has left me no choice. She thinks her and her family are the only ones who can play dirty. I can actually be quite brutal, especially when it comes to being with my son and protecting him.
Originally Posted by Nightwanderer
06-26-2008 05:00 PM
I've made another difficult decision. I went to family court yesterday and filed a court order violation against my son's mother. I got granted supervised visitation over 2 weeks ago and followed up with the mediator several times since then. They've been keeping a log. My son's mother ended up contacting me online and flipped out. She said the police had just been at her house and served her, telling her that I had filed a petition and we not only have to go to court next Thursday, but on Wednesday as well. I don't know what excuse she's gonna try convincing the judge to believe, but 2 1/2 weeks is long enough for her to simply pick up the phone and call the mediator, so that I can begin seeing my son as soon as possible. She's really pissed off and I'm concerned, only because I know the judge in family court doesn't take too kindly to those who disobey his orders and I know what it feels like to be arrested, go to court, put in jail, etc. What possible consequences could my son's mother be facing?
06-26-2008 05:56 PM
Bump, this has really been getting me down ever since yesterday morning...
06-26-2008 06:06 PM
You're MuscleGuyinNY aren't you? If I were you, I wouldn't tell everyone the same stories twice if you were trying to go around unnoticed.
06-26-2008 06:07 PM
You are at a spot where you can no longer worry about the consequences in regards to her. The question is do you want
Originally Posted by FcuktheFDA
to see your son, then by any legal means necessary....
Were you guys married?
06-26-2008 06:11 PM
Are you going to finally begin your HemodrauliX log for Axis Labs under your new screen name? Just wondering, since we pretty much gave up on you when you were MuscleGuyinNY.
06-26-2008 06:29 PM
I do wanna see my son and be in his life, which would be why I was and still am the one spending all my time and energy of making the arrangements for paperwork, court, etc. I'll always care about her as my son's mother. We were together for almost 2 years. We went through a lot. She really did leave me with no other choice. She filed a protection order against me and started seeing someone else. Of course I won't stand for that! I don't think any man would. I'm just curious as to how the judge might go about handling her taking almost 3 weeks to abide by his ruling instead of doing so when it was immediately ordered. Fines? Community service? Probation for contempt of court? I know a night in jail won't happen. I hope it doesn't. She has physical custody of our son right now. I really hope she can't weasel her way out of this. I'm hoping that her screwing up will work to my benefit. Maybe I'll get granted 2 hours per week instead of just 1 hour? Maybe I'll get to see him several times per week?
And, no, we were not married.
Originally Posted by heavies
06-26-2008 08:30 PM
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