Mashed Needs help on getting over his wife

**slow-mun** · 03-23-2008, 02:57 PM

Here's another video to make you smile. I don't disrespect women, but this seems like it will at least make you laugh.

datBtrue · 03-23-2008, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by MashedPotato

Hey guys,

As some of you may know things have happened between me and my wife. Without going into details, how the hell do you get over someone you love who doesnt love you back.

This is driving me crazy, everything in our home reminds me of her, everything i do, i see or hear. Shes now having feelings for a mutual friend of ours, we hadnt even split up, so this is real hard on me. I know where she is right at this moment, in a hotel, in the same bed, and kissing this guy.

I need help. This is hard guys. Real hard.

Thanks guys

Bro this is gonna sound silly I know...I've been around a long-assed time (I'm 41)...I've seen a lot of guys suffer from break ups.

The quickest most thorough way to get rid of those thoughts & feelings about your soon to be ex-wife is this....you MUST get the scent of another woman on your body. I mean that literally. There is something about having sex with a woman and taking in her essence that changes you chemically...it rewires the brain a bit...creates mild attachment to the new woman and reduces attachement to the old woman.

This doesn't by any stretch of the imagination wipe out the memory of feeling you had (or may still have) for you "old woman" but it will dampen down the intensity. You will not think about her constantly and when you do it won't be as intense because chemically you have bonded with someone else.

I'm not talking about getting a new girlfriend...take your time with that. I'm talking about a sexual encounter(s) with another woman...get her to sweat some and then rub it on yourself...

Trust me on that.

**jmh80** · 03-23-2008, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Gtarzan81

Mashed and myself live close to eachother. Found that out about a week ago.
I foresee some hanging out, and the clanking of heavy weights.

Stick close to him. He'll need a friend now more than ever.

You can help him out more than anyone else.

3clipseGT · 03-23-2008, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by datBtrue

Bro this is gonna sound silly I know...I've been around a long-assed time (I'm 41)...I've seen a lot of guys suffer from break ups.

The quickest most thorough way to get rid of those thoughts & feelings about your soon to be ex-wife is this....you MUST get the scent of another woman on your body. I mean that literally. There is something about having sex with a woman and taking in her essence that changes you chemically...it rewires the brain a bit...creates mild attachment to the new woman and reduces attachement to the old woman.

This doesn't by any stretch of the imagination wipe out the memory of feeling you had (or may still have) for you "old woman" but it will dampen down the intensity. You will not think about her constantly and when you do it won't be as intense because chemically you have bonded with someone else.

I'm not talking about getting a new girlfriend...take your time with that. I'm talking about a sexual encounter(s) with another woman...get her to sweat some and then rub it on yourself...

Trust me on that.

This is so true. I went thru a pretty hard brakeup and while it was me who ended it, it needed to be done it was still so hard. Everything reminded me of her, smells, songs, food, EVERYTHING, even the damn gym! Found myself a new lady in school and we both just clicked, didnt date, didnt have sex for 6 months BUT the smell of her and everything changed me so much and made it that much easier.

Also definately guys, if you live close get some workout time in especialy under the iron. The gym has always been my "home" away from home so to speak when i have problems with the lady friend. Stick in there taters and were here for ya man!

**Dadof2** · 03-23-2008, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by datBtrue

Bro this is gonna sound silly I know...I've been around a long-assed time (I'm 41)...I've seen a lot of guys suffer from break ups.

The quickest most thorough way to get rid of those thoughts & feelings about your soon to be ex-wife is this....you MUST get the scent of another woman on your body. I mean that literally. There is something about having sex with a woman and taking in her essence that changes you chemically...it rewires the brain a bit...creates mild attachment to the new woman and reduces attachement to the old woman.

This doesn't by any stretch of the imagination wipe out the memory of feeling you had (or may still have) for you "old woman" but it will dampen down the intensity. You will not think about her constantly and when you do it won't be as intense because chemically you have bonded with someone else.

I'm not talking about getting a new girlfriend...take your time with that. I'm talking about a sexual encounter(s) with another woman...get her to sweat some and then rub it on yourself...

Trust me on that.

Well your method definately sounds like the most fun

PumpDogg · 03-23-2008, 06:39 PM

Datbrut hit it right on the head all nice and PC like.. so I will give the old non pc saying below

The old saying, " nothing gets you over old P U S S Y like New P U S S Y"....

No offense to any womens..

**strategicmove** · 03-23-2008, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by datBtrue;

...I'm talking about a sexual encounter(s) with another woman...get her to sweat some and then rub it on yourself...

Trust me on that.

Depending on one's emotional state of attachment, this might need something like Aspire36 to implement. The first one or two encounters, at least.

**Gtarzan81** · 03-23-2008, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by jmh80

Stick close to him. He'll need a friend now more than ever.

You can help him out more than anyone else.

Thanks for that. I will try. We live about 1/2 hour apart here in the Dallas area.
We hung out and had a few beers last night. He's a good guy. Too good of one to deserve this shite happening to him.

TripDog · 03-23-2008, 10:33 PM

Mashed, keep strong no matter what. It's something everyone goes through at some point, and I got mine ..trust!. You are a funny ass dude, and a great addition to Anabolic Minds. Family guy is perhaps the best show in the world to laugh like a school girl....Trauma, and I can agreee here!!! Hit that 3-ad bro, and pound the weights!!!!!!

~Trip

**RenegadeRows** · 03-24-2008, 06:06 AM

Here's what has helped me with recent breakups:

1. Spoil yourself (go shopping)
2. Buy pheromones (smell nice & attract women)
3. Run a cycle (either natty or not ... get your confidence and endorphins going)
4. Go on dates
5. Realize that everything happens for a reason. There's probably a hot woman out there right now waiting to get some mashedpotato on her plate.

Stay strong bro, we're all here for you.

DmitryWI · 03-24-2008, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by RenegadeRows

There's probably a hot woman out there right now waiting to get some mashedpotato on her plate.

LOL This is good one.

crader · 03-24-2008, 08:26 PM

There is not too much I can say to make it better. But I would cut off all contact with her. Get a lawyer now so you can get it over with. Keep your self busy and keep friends around. And we are all here if you need us...

**macedaddy** · 03-24-2008, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by crader

There is not too much I can say to make it better. But I would cut off all contact with her. Get a lawyer now so you can get it over with. Keep your self busy and keep friends around. And we are all here if you need us...

Good advice here!

Sunder · 03-25-2008, 01:36 AM

All solid advice already given: block her out and participate in casual sex with new pussy.

Do you have any super trusted friends or family? You might want to consider "giving" them certain important items from your home as well as "pay back" that loan you took from them before letting her know you know about her or your intentions, etc.

She owns half of your stuff now - yes, including your sports supplements and comic book collection from when you were 12.

My dad used to collect beer cans from all over the world. When he divorced, my mother claimed she wanted them (out of spite) - and essentially forced my dad to pay $1000 for something he collected before getting married to her. She had moved several of her "items" before all this while he was at work - I may hate my mother but I guess I inherited her evil thoughts and self-preservation skills. My father got raped so bad in court it wasn't even funny. Protect yourself 1st and DO NOT CARE ABOUT HER FEELINGS. Trust me on this. Sorry to offend the opposite sex, but women are generally superior to men when it comes to emotional manipulation and are usually a few steps a