Ok heres my situation, I've been close friends with this girl for a couple of years now and have openly stated my feelings for her on more then one occasion. Recently things between us have gone to the next level. Now I wouldn't have any problems with this if not for the fact that a pretty good friend of mine who is also friends with this girl also has feelings for her and right now I'm torn between how I should feel. On one hand I've done what many people have told me is impossible (getting out of the friend zone) and on the other hand there is a part of me that feels pretty ****ty because I know if he found out what has happened between me and her that he would be pretty crushed. So my question is, would it be better to not let this person know what happened between us or should I be honest and let everything out in the open.