Men I need some advice!!!
11-13-2006 06:37 PM
Dump her if you can't remedy the situation. It sounds like her mother is a big influence on her decisions. Try explaining to her that shes not moma's little girl anymore and she is all grown up and can make her own decisions about what she does with her body. Also that she shouldn't feel that because her mother wants her to join this prayer group that she should.
If you can't fix this definately end it because once you're married you'll be screwed even more. Her mother will always be around. If possible move to a location that her mother will not be able to influence her like that.
Another simple solution I just thought of, propose. If this really is the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with go for it. You've already spent four years with her.
11-14-2006 10:52 AM
Originally Posted by blahblah192
I did that with one of my wives (on #4 and hopefully the final) she still called her mom or vice versus every day (yes literally) and wrote each other a couple of times a week and we were only 100 miles away. This mom was like the mother on the TV show Raymond. Lived close by and had a key. would just walk in and start doing thing in the house, throw stuff away, re-arrange the furniture etc.
You most definitely do not want that kind of power in your relationship.
11-15-2006 05:30 PM
The first thing I thought of after reading your post is that her mother and the other women in that prayer group seriously ****ed her way of thinking up and questioned her relationship with you.
They probably threw in stuff like "he's with your for 4 years and your not talking abour marriage,kids, etc... Then they probably quoted something about Jesus or God after that (pretaining to sex, relationships, etc... I know this goes on because my mom was hardcore into this stuff when I was younger. It is not as bad these days but she still goes to those prayer meetings all the time and has given my dad hell through the years because she listens to those stupid old hens cackling at the meetings.
The second thing I thought is she is trying to give you a non-verbal ultimatum. Marry me or no more sex. Women do things like this all the time to see what kinda response they'll get out of you. The best thing is to play it cool. DO NOT insult the religion, church, or prayer group becuase the $hit will hit the fan if you do.
Take the advice the other guys gave you and tell her how it more than just a booty call when ya'll have sex and why its not a bad thing to have premarital sex.
11-15-2006 10:16 PM
why does the mom hate u? im sure its not a good reason, but there is a reason
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