Ok I'll cut to the chase...
Last night I'm at my friends girlfriends house for the super bowl. At about halftime or so, one of her ex-boyfriends calls her cell. I'm not sure if he left a message or talked to her directly, but he offered to pay her for sex. Today in school, she told me that she is petrafied(sp?) of him.
Now do I think this kid is and evil son of a bitch as most people do? No. I think he is massivly misunderstood. My mottow is "hate cant remove hate, only love can do that." I dont plan on changing it.
To understand this kid you have to go back to 7th grade. His father died of, I want to say, cancer. He has never been the same since. He doesn't know how to direct his anger and sadness, other then to take it out on others (myself included on occation). Do I hold this against him? No.
Flash forward to last year. They went out for a few months or so. I have absolutley no way of knowing if this is true, but some people say he beat her every once in a while. This relates to the above paragraph. After they broke up (according to her) they had a conversation where she said "its over for good" and he started to cry. This shows he really does still love her. I understand his pain, which is why I cant hold anything agains him in relation to her.
My friend wants me to beat his ass. I have never, and will never, raise a fist, especally not against this kid.
Though I hold none of this against him, there is no denying that he is a pretty violent kid. It keeps crossing my mind... what if he rapes her.... what if he kills her?
I think I'm going to do the following.
1) talk to him in school tomorow, I have a way of defusing a lot of bad situations
2) if that goes no where, I might just tell the police.
If you think I'm being a pussy and a coward by not backing up my friend more, just say so. All advice is appreciated.
Last night I'm at my friends girlfriends house for the super bowl. At about halftime or so, one of her ex-boyfriends calls her cell. I'm not sure if he left a message or talked to her directly, but he offered to pay her for sex. Today in school, she told me that she is petrafied(sp?) of him.
Now do I think this kid is and evil son of a bitch as most people do? No. I think he is massivly misunderstood. My mottow is "hate cant remove hate, only love can do that." I dont plan on changing it.
To understand this kid you have to go back to 7th grade. His father died of, I want to say, cancer. He has never been the same since. He doesn't know how to direct his anger and sadness, other then to take it out on others (myself included on occation). Do I hold this against him? No.
Flash forward to last year. They went out for a few months or so. I have absolutley no way of knowing if this is true, but some people say he beat her every once in a while. This relates to the above paragraph. After they broke up (according to her) they had a conversation where she said "its over for good" and he started to cry. This shows he really does still love her. I understand his pain, which is why I cant hold anything agains him in relation to her.
My friend wants me to beat his ass. I have never, and will never, raise a fist, especally not against this kid.
Though I hold none of this against him, there is no denying that he is a pretty violent kid. It keeps crossing my mind... what if he rapes her.... what if he kills her?
I think I'm going to do the following.
1) talk to him in school tomorow, I have a way of defusing a lot of bad situations
2) if that goes no where, I might just tell the police.
If you think I'm being a pussy and a coward by not backing up my friend more, just say so. All advice is appreciated.