So my girl cheated....... Now What?

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  1. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    **** happens and while I got plenty of noodz I can't do that to her. Even if she did cheat
    I always destroy any previous relationship artifacts


  2. I forgot to destroy one picture and one email and my wife found it during our honeymoon phase. Hurt her deeply.
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  3. **** just sucks, cause if you're still in the honeymoon phase (which I was) she feels like the best thing in the world. Then she leaves either by choice or by force and you're left missing "the best thing in the world" even tho you know she ****ed you over.

    Now I got 18 months till I ship off for basics and then higher up training, and I know through tall that training I won't be coming home so now I'm torn on if there's enough time to start and/or find something meaningful again.

  4. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    **** just sucks, cause if you're still in the honeymoon phase (which I was)
    she feels like the best thing in the world. Then she leaves either by choice or by force and you're left missing
    "the best thing in the world" even tho you know she ****ed you over.

    Now I got 18 months till I ship off for basics and then higher up training, and I know through tall that training
    I won't be coming home so now I'm torn on if there's enough time to start and/or find something meaningful again.
    I would focus on myself during the next 18 months, and not worry about finding a replacement.

    Take time to improve some things that you would like to improve while you have the freedom to focus
    on yourself, and not worry about another person.

    If you meet someone along the way, great, if not, stay busy bro.

    Read a self improvement book, take some sort of class, learn a language, try a new hobby.

    Just get out there..!!!
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  5. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    **** just sucks, cause if you're still in the honeymoon phase (which I was) she feels like the best thing in the world. Then she leaves either by choice or by force and you're left missing "the best thing in the world" even tho you know she ****ed you over.

    Now I got 18 months till I ship off for basics and then higher up training, and I know through tall that training I won't be coming home so now I'm torn on if there's enough time to start and/or find something meaningful again.
    We eventually divorced. I Nearly lost my mind. Why? Because I trusted her too much. A newb move I knew I should not have done then. Had always held back in previous relationships so terminations were easy. I thought she was the best in the world. I was wrong. I found one better. I stay in control now and still Love her dearly. So no more hard landings should it go awry.

    You have to watch women all the time.
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  6. Quote Originally Posted by vujade View Post
    I would focus on myself during the next 18 months, and not worry about finding a replacement.

    Take time to improve some things that you would like to improve while you have the freedom to focus
    on yourself, and not worry about another person.

    If you meet someone along the way, great, if not, stay busy bro.

    Read a self improvement book, take some sort of class, learn a language, try a new hobby.

    Just get out there..!!!
    Def been working on myself recently just sucks lol. Life's a bitch and a half tho. Even more if you add women in to the mix I've found

    Note: not saying all women make life harder, just the wrong women

  7. **** her bestfriend, life goes on
    When you are a wolf, all sheep are the same.

  8. Quote Originally Posted by HTGduck View Post
    **** her bestfriend, life goes on
    What if it's a guy?
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  9. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    Title says all.
    BRO?! You need to call me man. Do you have my number?

  10. Bro definitely everything happens for a reason so she did you a favor. It sucks I know but don't let it get you down. There is always 100 more to replace her that won't cheat. Going through the single phase figuring myself out now. But never been happier took a long time but nice to just be me and my dog no drama no bull**** and occasional booty call single life isn't too bad

  11. Quote Originally Posted by Aleksandar37 View Post
    What if it's a guy?
    That will just mess her head up even more lol
    When you are a wolf, all sheep are the same.

  12. Quote Originally Posted by HTGduck View Post
    That will just mess her head up even more lol
    perfect answer lmao
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  13. Quote Originally Posted by Brandinooooo View Post
    BRO?! You need to call me man. Do you have my number?
    Nah I'm mostly good now tho bro just a few rough nights

  14. Quote Originally Posted by UCSMiami View Post

    You have to watch women all the time.
    Ain't nobody got time for that. Seriously, if you have to watch and worry about trusting a woman then it's the wrong one.

  15. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    Nah I'm mostly good now tho bro just a few rough nights
    Alright man. That really sucks though. Its not right for someone to cheat. No matter the circumstances.

  16. Quote Originally Posted by kisaj View Post
    Ain't nobody got time for that. Seriously, if you have to watch and worry about trusting a woman then it's the wrong one.
    Word.
    Psalms 62:1-62:2

  17. Just enjoy being single. It really is awesome. My judge for whether or not I wanted a relationship with a woman I was talking to was if I thought I would be happier with her or being single. Single won out every time until I met my wife.
    It's Bea, fcker. Bea Mother****ing Arthur. Dammit........lol

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  18. Nice to see all the support, I'm sure this thread will help out a lotta other guys. No one takes relationships seriously anymore.

  19. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    Nice to see all the support, I'm sure this thread will help out a lotta other guys. No one takes relationships seriously anymore.
    There is a lot of good advice in here. But mine is talk to her calmly and get closure. Especially if it was someone you loved. Cut the bitch out of your life for sure but get answers or it might eat at you forever.

  20. Quote Originally Posted by rtmilburn View Post
    There is a lot of good advice in here. But mine is talk to her calmly and get closure. Especially if it was someone you loved. Cut the bitch out of your life for sure but get answers or it might eat at you forever.
    I already cut her out, got too much **** going in to bring it back to reality. And personally I don't give a fucj anymore

  21. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    I already cut her out, got too much **** going in to bring it back to reality. And personally I don't give a fucj anymore
    Good!!! Stay strong get drunk​ and fuk a college girl!!!!

  22. Quote Originally Posted by ChocolateClen View Post
    I already cut her out, got too much **** going in to bring it back to reality. And personally I don't give a fucj anymore
    Best move to be honest. People cheat because they can and think they won't get caught.
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  23. Quote Originally Posted by rtmilburn View Post
    Good!!! Stay strong get drunk​ and fuk a college girl!!!!
    That^^^ I know there has to be a college bar or 7 around you. Hit the gym and go party afterwards. Get yourself laid buddy.

  24. Quote Originally Posted by Brandinooooo View Post
    That^^^ I know there has to be a college bar or 7 around you. Hit the gym and go party afterwards. Get yourself laid buddy.
    He has "standards" or some shyt, remember? We need a new idea....
    It's Bea, fcker. Bea Mother****ing Arthur. Dammit........lol

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  25. Quote Originally Posted by ryane87 View Post
    He has "standards" or some shyt, remember? We need a new idea....
    True. Im not sure I even know what those are anymore. Maybe pay a hot chick to service him? Or is that still too much? I can't tell anymore.
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