unless you're "with" a girl, that kind of dancing is kind of out of the question anyway... maybe some closeup stuff and moving close... but the grinding action of an ass in your lap is... well i dunno...
maybe its just the place in which i live... course southern men treat women better than any other men in the world anyway...
It seems like the responses to this issue have been different because, like you said Bean, it is partly depending on the geographical location and age group.
It's interesting because I am just starting to realize that this type of dancing is not exactly "normal" everywhere. I'm only 19, and I will tell you all right now, all through high school, freshmen year through senoir, that is how *everyone* danced at our school dances. Now mind you the occasional slow song would come on, and then everyone would assume a safe and conservative slow dance position, but inbetween that everyone was bumpin' and grindin' like we were filming a rap video :whip: .
I know I am starting to go off topic from the original post question, but some of you might find it interesting to know that this type of "innapropriate behavoir" (as the school administrators called it) was a constant issue throughout my time in High school. I was in ASB all four years, and the principal and asst. principal would just come and hound us to try and convince our fellow students to stop dancing like that. They tried a lot of things, more "adult supervision", playing oldies songs (but it was actually kinda funny there would be people bumpin and grindin to the village people YMCA lmao :drunk: ).
That's the way I learned how to dance, I danced that way with every girls, and I know for a fact that some girls would feel "sad" or that they were not hot enough if a guy there were dancing with didn't get a lil excited :cheers: . Of course when I ended up going to dance at other places like other schools, churches, weddings, it was rather awkward for me because I only knew how to dance one way :frustrate
Anyways, to answer the original question, don't worry about it bro, just let your trouser commando do his thing, I think more chicks are into it than they will say. Like I said I have known several girls that enjoy bringing someone to that level of excitement.
Is it slutty? Should this be going on in highschools, should your 10th grade daughter be "grinding" up against some senoir she doesn't even know? <<<<<<< I dunno, but it is deffinately prevalent in some highschools, I know cause I was just there doing it myself
