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  1. Quote Originally Posted by Sean1332 View Post
    I've been up since 4am. My almost 2 year old discovered how to both take his diaper off, and turn the tv on. I woke up with him butt naked sittin on my belly watching Mickey Mouse playin with his dingaling.

    And the sleep cycles will be in phases. We're in the "I won't sleep in my bed past 1am phase"
    I laughed so hard!!!


  2. Quote Originally Posted by cabrunner6480 View Post
    Awesome subbed to this thread. We just had our daughter five weeks ago. Whole new world. I love it.

    The only thing is I haven't been able to get to the gym regularly. Any father's advice for newbie dads and lifting?
    Right now, my workouts are only 15-30 minutes long. I rotate chest/back, shoulders/arms, legs. One exercise each for 3-5 sets depending on time rostering from one to the other. The last set is always an all-out effort. I get in the gym at 5am at the latest and am out by 530am at the latest. I rotate the days and hit the gym 2-5 days a week depending on the week.

    I've been doing some variation of that for about six months now (eight month old daughter). And it's been treating me well. Follow my log. It's called Making the Superman.
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  3. Really it's all about the wife man. If she's awesome she'll understand and take it on while you're at the gym

  4. Quote Originally Posted by Sean1332 View Post
    It's something you have to sacrifice here and there. Just make sure the wife is happy and she gets her time, because that'll mean you'll get your time. When we lived in an apartment, I just let mini-me sleep in his carseat/carrier thing in the apartments tiny gym by ourselves while I got a quick 20 minute pump on.

    Luckily, my guy is in daycare now and I work 2 days on/2 days off, so I have my days off to myself for gym time before I pick him up.
    Very much this. It is a time sacrifice and it isn't about you anymore. Make sure your wife/gf knows how important it is to you and to set a good example to your lady and kid. Also, make sure she gets her time too. As a plus, your kid(s) stand a much better chance of leading a healthier lifestyle if they see daddy taking care of his. My wife and I are very active and our kids don't know anything else. It's awesome.

  5. Quote Originally Posted by kisaj View Post
    Make sure your wife/gf knows how important it is to you
    This. I told my wife that I could be asking to go out boozing with friends, or be gone hours at a time doing whatever, but all I want is to just workout and I'll be happy. I make sure to annoy the crap out of her "want to go get your pedicure and walk around the mall, massage, chick flick?" "no? ok well I'm goin to the gym then"
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  6. Quote Originally Posted by Sean1332 View Post

    This. I told my wife that I could be asking to go out boozing with friends, or be gone hours at a time doing whatever, but all I want is to just workout and I'll be happy. I make sure to annoy the crap out of her "want to go get your pedicure and walk around the mall, massage, chick flick?" "no? ok well I'm goin to the gym then"
    Fir sure, when we're both home she has no problem with me going. I in turn give her some time to go to the mall or just get out for a bit

  7. Quote Originally Posted by nicksox15 View Post

    Fir sure, when we're both home she has no problem with me going. I in turn give her some time to go to the mall or just get out for a bit
    Give and take.....my wife lets me do my thing, but she does complain a lot...I try to give her some space.....freakin hormones...she doesn't no what to do sometimes.

    Friend told me it can take more than a year for her old self to come back
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  9. Quote Originally Posted by edje007 View Post
    Give and take.....my wife lets me do my thing, but she does complain a lot...I try to give her some space.....freakin hormones...she doesn't no what to do sometimes. Friend told me it can take more than a year for her old self to come back
    It took my wife close to a year. There were times when nothing I did was right lol Sucked ass
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  10. Thankfully I've been really lucky and my wife bounced back really quickly. She's her good ol self already and we're enjoying this ride together! Had the mother in law in town over the weekend so we got to have our first dinner out since the baby was born. Amazing how refreshing a two hour meal together can be!
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  11. Quote Originally Posted by edje007 View Post
    Give and take.....my wife lets me do my thing, but she does complain a lot...I try to give her some space.....freakin hormones...she doesn't no what to do sometimes.

    Friend told me it can take more than a year for her old self to come back
    Quote Originally Posted by Sean1332 View Post
    It took my wife close to a year. There were times when nothing I did was right lol Sucked ass
    You guys talking about after giving birth? Cuz if so, I'm still there. After over eight months though the tide is starting to turn. Her hormones not only effect her attitude, but have serious impact on her weight too. Even with breast feeding she's had a hell of a time losing any weight post partum. That's even finally changing though too. She's dropped five pounds in the last two weeks and her appetite is returning to normal. Not only that, but the sex drive is revving up again! Yeah buddy!!!
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    It's an odd place I find myself in being the father of adult children, in particular, my daughter. She is so much like me in more ways than I like. Dad's pay attention - they are watching you - always - especially your little girls. Be your best at all times.

    Her dreams fulfilled have inspired me to act on my dreams - maybe sping of 2014

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  13. That's great that she can inspire you, as you have obviously inspired her! Very cool stuff man

  14. Quote Originally Posted by nicksox15 View Post
    That's great that she can inspire you, as you have obviously inspired her! Very cool stuff man
    ^this.....very cool stuff
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  15. So we're getting to the last month before my wife goes back to work and we have to put our daughter in daycare. We're going with a small in home one which we like and am just curious what others experience was with this transition. I know my wife is looking forward to getting back to work but is struggling with having to leave her.

  16. Quote Originally Posted by nicksox15 View Post
    So we're getting to the last month before my wife goes back to work and we have to put our daughter in daycare. We're going with a small in home one which we like and am just curious what others experience was with this transition. I know my wife is looking forward to getting back to work but is struggling with having to leave her.
    Transition? I call it relief lol

    Mini-me is stuck with me until he's 18 years old. I can afford a few hours during the day without him! But, when we first started, it was in-home daycare like yours. We trusted the family (being on a military base helps) They were very professional and well mannered. They insisted on taking him every Friday night for a few hours on the Fridays I wasn't on duty, so that the wife and I could have a date night. We didn't know what to do with ourselves, and we ended up picking him up early the first few times.

    Now he's at a school type daycare. The days I have off work, I drop him off, take a short nap, workout, grab some groceries and walk the dog, then I'll pick him up. So you'll get used to it real fast haha
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  17. Quote Originally Posted by Sean1332 View Post
    Transition? I call it relief lol

    Mini-me is stuck with me until he's 18 years old. I can afford a few hours during the day without him! But, when we first started, it was in-home daycare like yours. We trusted the family (being on a military base helps) They were very professional and well mannered. They insisted on taking him every Friday night for a few hours on the Fridays I wasn't on duty, so that the wife and I could have a date night. We didn't know what to do with ourselves, and we ended up picking him up early the first few times.

    Now he's at a school type daycare. The days I have off work, I drop him off, take a short nap, workout, grab some groceries and walk the dog, then I'll pick him up. So you'll get used to it real fast haha
    Yea, I went back to work right away so I'm used to leaving. Our lady will do the same thing for us with the date nights which is awesome. My Mother in law actually came up on Saturday to watch her so we could go to dinner. It was very relaxing! And I won the bet that my wife would text her mom while we were out checking in. Lol, only took her 45 minutes.

  18. great thread idea!! I'm a father of 2 little boys 5 years old and 20 months, lets just say that I don't sit much.. LOL

  19. Quote Originally Posted by nicksox15 View Post
    So we're getting to the last month before my wife goes back to work and we have to put our daughter in daycare. We're going with a small in home one which we like and am just curious what others experience was with this transition. I know my wife is looking forward to getting back to work but is struggling with having to leave her.
    With our first, we went the in home route for the first 2 years as well. The hardest part we had was finding a really good one that we trusted. We interviewed about 20 of them and it is incredible to me the conditions people will leave their kids in for another person to watch over. If you get a good one, it is a great way to start because the extra attention and small enrollment is more comforting (to us at least). We transitioned in by planning our work schedules to allow her to go for a couple of hours and then over the course of the week, added an extra hour each day. We only have ever done daycare part time, thankfully, but that is how we did it.

  20. Quote Originally Posted by nicksox15 View Post
    So we're getting to the last month before my wife goes back to work and we have to put our daughter in daycare. We're going with a small in home one which we like and am just curious what others experience was with this transition. I know my wife is looking forward to getting back to work but is struggling with having to leave her.
    Both of my kids are in daycare, we started with the home daycare first thinking it was better.. We were wrong, when it's at a persons home there is no one looking over them and they are not following state guidelines. At daycare they are spot checked by the state and they keep all the kids in line with behavior issues and vaccinations.. We caught the home daycare women out blowing leaves with the kids in the house by themselves!!! Never again..at daycare I can see my kids on camera at work

  21. There are definitely those types of places, but trust me that the big places that are supposedly overlooked by the state are not any better if you don't do your leg work and investigate them. If you read up on them, you'll see that many of them have been reported on and have warnings against them. Once we moved our daughter out of the in home and into daycare/preschool/preK place that my wife's friend owns, we researched every place within 10 miles of our house and it is staggering the number of infractions places are allowed to have. Not only that, but the places you would think are the top rated are not immune.

    Point being, one is not better than the other. You need to research and interview these places and always have your eyes open even after that.

  22. Yea, our in home person is actually liscensed with the state so that's awesome. We met with quite a few other ones and I can't believe how ****ty some of them were. One lady hadn't even cleaned her house, garbage sitting out and said that she has the kids nap on a towel on the floor. I couldn't get out of there fast enough, lol.

  23. I'll tell you that the licensing process for in home is a complete joke. We knew some people that were licensed and were the biggest pigs ever and the state actually lets them know ahead of time when they will be visiting for inspection. So they would make everything perfect and get all the paperwork lined up for a week, not knowing which day it would be, and then go right back to the slummy people they were.

    Licensing and state run bologna is no replacement for gut feeling and thorough research.

    Not saying anyone here isn't doing that, just putting my general comment out there after having gone through this process for such a long time with 2 kids.

  24. We've got a school type. We just moved here a year ago and with no ties/hookups we had to do the leg work ourselves in researching facilities. We've had minor issues with ours (a missed diaper here, going a little too long between bottles there, etc). But for the most part they've been doing good. Our little girl is happy, healthy, and developing how she should. But with the money we're paying, that better damn well be the case!!! In about two more years, my wife should be able to quit her job and stay home full time.

  25. We're lucky cause ours is a close friend of one of our friends and is highly recommended. We've dropped in a few times un announced so we are very confident she'll be in good hands

  26. It takes awhile my little boys almost 2 and still wakes up a few times a night, and my wife sleeps like a rock(if a rock sounded like a chainsaw lol) so I'm the one that gets up for him. Anyone got some potty training tips
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  27. Y'all think your daycares are bad there was one here that got busted for having a toddler fighting ring
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  28. Quote Originally Posted by Oscar View Post
    Y'all think your daycares are bad there was one here that got busted for having a toddler fighting ring
    Serious? Toddler fighting ring? Wtf?
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  29. That's about the worst thing I've ever heard

  30. Quote Originally Posted by nicksox15 View Post
    That's about the worst thing I've ever heard
    Sick...should execute those people who worked there
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