I bought a intructional guitar video two months ago. I sent several e mails with no response and I tried to call but could not get the phone number. I reported the incident to e bay and left negative feedback. The seller finally e- mailed me back and said his wife was sick, in the hospital, and she was the one handling everything. He asked me if I wanted a refund or the item sent. Since he all ready had the check I told him to go ahead and send the video. He then e mailed me and asked me to change the feedback. I told him I would when I received the video. He e mailed me again and asked me to change the feed back and basically lie as to why I did get the item. I again told him I would resolve the feedback when I had the video. That was close to two weeks ago. I tried e mailing him a few times and he hasn't responded. I looked at the feed back I left for him and he responded that I set him a bounced check which is a flat out lie. I have the e mails to prove everything I said. Anyone know the best way to deal with this or how to get unlisted phone numbers?