I had to put that last part in as I was running the risk of taking myself to seriously. But, if you asked dude on the right "What is best in life?" He would tell you:
To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of the women.
takes balance throw in kids and work and etc it gets alot harder but can be done.like many have said its a lifestyle choice you have to manage it all effectively is the key