It is always attractive from a girl's POV for a man to take control but it's useful to keep in mind that a woman needs to be mature as well. If she wants a guy to be a mind-reader 24/7 then her expectations are unrealistically high. There's other things in the world aside from sex. If she happens to want it and it seems like you aren't exactly on the ball because you say, just finished waking up, then there's absolutely nothing with her being a big girl and taking initiative. You can always 'take charge' after the first move has been made and you two love birds start getting into it. It's not like your putting off a first kiss when you both know she wants it. I think both of you can step it up in your own respective situations. I'm not into that "your fault or my fault" thing. In the adult world, if you want something, you've gotta go for it. I've dated girls a few years older than me and although I've had no problem sensing when the time is right and exhibiting my intentions, if a woman wants something, she will get it. She won't wait for it longer than her desire allows her.
