Some of my fellow forum junkies may have (or not have) noticed a lack of participation on my part lately. It's not that I've been slacking in my desire to continue to be a part of this comunity, I have just been going through some heavy personal problems lately and have not been "in the mood" to contribute. You see, about a month ago, I was informed by my wife that she is "not in love with me anymore" :think: It dropped on me like a bomb.The divorce process has begun. I'm not posting this to whine or gripe about my plight, I just feel like I am part of something bigger than myself here, and I wanted to be open about it with my iron comrades. The part that is fucking with me the most, is that we have two small children and the prospect of leaving our home and not sleeping under the same roof as them is really tearing me up. I can get over my wife. That is the easy part. Ultimately, I know that this is for the better and we will ALL be ok. I know that there will be some dificult times ahead for me, but I do have enough vision and inner strength to know that I will be well.In spite of that I could use some encouragement from any of you out there who understand what I am facing here. I know that in the coming months, I will need all the support I can get and I am not afraid to admit it. If you've read this to the end, Thanks.