Poll: Do you have sex, just to please your partner?

do you have sex, even when you dont want to!

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  1. do you have sex, even when you dont want to!


    do any of you have sex ,even when you dont want to, just to please your partner?


  2. i think this is what my wife does sometimes.

  3. Quote Originally Posted by Hank Vangut View Post
    i think this is what my wife does sometimes.
    lol..!
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  4. Yes, that woman has no empathy for my feelings. Sometimes I just want to snuggle and know she cares

    :bruce3:

  5. back before I was christian, I know my girlfriend did this a few times. But alas.....I figure marriage has those days too, i will find out someday.

  6. A quickie, FTW!

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  7. I never turn it down. never. The main reason is. You never know when you're going to need it again. or when the ole lady wants to. plus after about :30 sec. i say to myself....."yeah, i wanna do it!"

  8. [QUOTE=Bravoboy;1637477]I never turn it down. never. The main reason is. You never know when you're going to need it again. or when the ole lady wants to. plus after about :30 sec. i say to myself....."yeah, i wanna do it!"[/QUOTE

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  9. I love *****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  10. Whats this "when you dont want to" stuff you're talking about....LOL

    holy

  11. Yes. Unless it's with someone new, my sex drive is usually pretty low. I just get bored with the same woman easily, regardless of how/where/what we do after a while. But since I love this girl, I'm gonna give her the dik when she wants it, so that she stays happy. And I'm an expert at being "into it" so no worries on that front. I can pump with the best of em'. enthused or no.

  12. Goes both ways...but that said, it is sort of her job to turn you on, while at the same time it is your job to turn her on.

    Provided the rest of your life is satisfying (no "issues" affecting overall sex drive), and there are no other confounding factors (worked for 5 days straight, big project due in 2 hours, etc.) then not wanting it is a symptom of other problems in the relationship.
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  13. If I'm having sex with a girl, then it's because I want to. I honestly don't recall a time that I did not want to be having sex while having sex.
    But then again, I have given my girl oral just to please her. But I also enjoyed it, so I don't know how to vote.
    Last edited by majorpain; 11-08-2008 at 04:29 PM. Reason: after thought

  14. Quote Originally Posted by majorpain View Post
    If I'm having sex with a girl, then it's because I want to. I honestly don't recall a time that I did not want to be having sex while having sex.
    But then again, I have given my girl oral just to please her. But I also enjoyed it, so I don't know how to vote.
    omg!..where do you get the strenght to train?....j.k..!

  15. I've done it so many times,.. I mean just to keep the peace, and even things out kinda!!!
    Think training's hard,. try losing!

  16. Quote Originally Posted by bonscott View Post
    I've done it so many times,.. I mean just to keep the peace, and even things out kinda!!!
    now thats what im talking about!..lol i hope you voted also bonscott!..lol

  17. I voted never, because I never had a girl who wanted to f**k more than I did....

    But then again, I never lived with a female more 1 week so I never had a chance to get bored.
  18. Talking


    Quote Originally Posted by Omen View Post
    I voted never, because I never had a girl who wanted to f**k more than I did....

    But then again, I never lived with a female more 1 week so I never had a chance to get bored.
    ..lol

  19. Quote Originally Posted by Hank Vangut View Post
    i think this is what my wife does sometimes.
    Its her wifely duty.

  20. Quote Originally Posted by Dr Packenwood View Post
    Its her wifely duty.
    somehow my wife didn't get the manual.

  21. Quote Originally Posted by Dr Packenwood View Post
    Its her wifely duty.
    that's a tough sell, these days.

  22. I voted 'sometimes'.

    I don't always "feel like" sex, but I'm nearing 60: that means I respond to direct attention (*ahem*) better than I respond to mere proximity. If she's willing to take care of insertability (and since she learned that this was the difference between "enough sex" & "not enough sex" she's more than willing), I'm willing to roll. Some of the best sex I've ever had was the result of me being 'coaxed into it'.

    Then again, is there a more potent aphrodisiac than knowing she wants you however she can get you?

    Sadly, she's not big on receiving oral or anal, so I'm seriously contemplating a second girlfriend (the second I'm considering is also iffy about receiving oral, dammit, but enthusiastic about anal...both are enthusiastic about giving head, and proud of their skilz)

  23. Quote Originally Posted by Hank Vangut View Post
    somehow my wife didn't get the manual.
    an initial sexual mismatch typically deteriorates; and sadly, things like this are *never* really negotiable after the fact...

  24. Quote Originally Posted by BodyWizard View Post
    I voted 'sometimes'.

    I don't always "feel like" sex, but I'm nearing 60: that means I respond to direct attention (*ahem*) better than I respond to mere proximity. If she's willing to take care of insertability (and since she learned that this was the difference between "enough sex" & "not enough sex" she's more than willing), I'm willing to roll. Some of the best sex I've ever had was the result of me being 'coaxed into it'.

    Then again, is there a more potent aphrodisiac than knowing she wants you however she can get you?

    Sadly, she's not big on receiving oral or anal, so I'm seriously contemplating a second girlfriend (the second I'm considering is also iffy about receiving oral, dammit, but enthusiastic about anal...both are enthusiastic about giving head, and proud of their skilz)
    reps!..sent..!lol..!wow!!!!!

  25. I have sex even when I don't want to... It's a way of life.

  26. Quote Originally Posted by Hank Vangut View Post
    i think this is what my wife does sometimes.
    Hank never turns down sex with himself.........
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  27. Quote Originally Posted by TripDog View Post
    Hank never turns down sex with himself.........
    Sounds like he's the one that gets the manual, then.
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  28. Quote Originally Posted by dsade View Post
    Sounds like he's the one that gets the manual, then.
    He can do wicked things to a empty bottle of Havoc.
    The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety.-Psalm 18:2

  29. Quote Originally Posted by TripDog View Post
    Hank never turns down sex with himself.........
    this is true.
    my hand has never turned me down.

  30. Quote Originally Posted by Hank Vangut View Post
    this is true.
    my hand has never turned me down.
    my hands has never let me down too!

  31. I have never met a guy that did not want to. Hell, I am 32, and cant remember a time I didnt want to. Any woman Ihave been with just had to look at me and the response was "okie dokie, lets go" (not literally of course)
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  32. Quote Originally Posted by Reaper329 View Post
    I have never met a guy that did not want to. Hell, I am 32, and cant remember a time I didnt want to. Any woman Ihave been with just had to look at me and the response was "okie dokie, lets go" (not literally of course)
    My mind's telling me no...

    But my body, my body's telling me yes!

  33. I voted yes. Stress is a big factor on this. If I've had a rough day, been busy after work, a heavy day of lifting and we just did it that morning. Sometimes in the evening I won't want to repeat, because all I want is to pass out. But she has no problem convincing me, as soon as takes her clothes off I can't say no.

    But yes there are times when it's not the first thing on my mind.

  34. Quote Originally Posted by Nabisco View Post
    I voted yes. Stress is a big factor on this. If I've had a rough day, been busy after work, a heavy day of lifting and we just did it that morning. Sometimes in the evening I won't want to repeat, because all I want is to pass out. But she has no problem convincing me, as soon as takes her clothes off I can't say no.

    But yes there are times when it's not the first thing on my mind.
    i hear you loud and clear,bro!

  35. I voted NEVER simply because I can't ever remember not wanting to have sex...of course I'm still only 29. My last girlfriend would sometimes have to give me special attention to get that second time in a row out of me sometimes...but I was more than willing and wanting.

  36. funny question, this has been driving me crazy for the last couple of months. when my gf and i first got together we would go at it all the time almost every night. she had a medical problem for a little bit and since then its maybe once every 2 weeks. its VERRY discouraging when i try to make a move and i get denied 10 times in a row. makes me not even want to try anymore and i feel its starting to ruin our relationship.
  37. Wink


    Quote Originally Posted by Dyou View Post
    funny question, this has been driving me crazy for the last couple of months. when my gf and i first got together we would go at it all the time almost every night. she had a medical problem for a little bit and since then its maybe once every 2 weeks. its VERRY discouraging when i try to make a move and i get denied 10 times in a row. makes me not even want to try anymore and i feel its starting to ruin our relationship.
    that is alot of time's claiming to have a headache..huh?..lol..!j.k!

  38. Quote Originally Posted by Dyou View Post
    funny question, this has been driving me crazy for the last couple of months. when my gf and i first got together we would go at it all the time almost every night. she had a medical problem for a little bit and since then its maybe once every 2 weeks. its VERRY discouraging when i try to make a move and i get denied 10 times in a row. makes me not even want to try anymore and i feel its starting to ruin our relationship.
    Have you explained the situation to her?
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  39. we have talked about it before and her explaination is that she isnt comfortable with her body and that she feels ugly. I think she is gorgeous. then i think that never stopped us before... i dont think im a jelous person but that just makes me think theirs something going on that im not aware of.

  40. At 21, there is almost never a time when I dont want to.
    But there are times when I have hit on girls while my judgment has been impaired, and while sobering I realized it was a bad idea. But, being the saint that I am , I'll proceed to show them a good time. I call it community service
  

  
 

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