I believe there there is a fine line between a typical "Alpha" mentality and a bully. In high school, I was a skinny 145 pounds kid and beaten up and picked on repeatedly because I was much smaller than the football players and other bullies. Every one of us has "Alpha" in us but it is what we do with it that defines us. After many years of hard work in the gym and many USP supplements I have put on 60 pounds of muscle. Being an "Alpha" is embracing your weaknesses and making them your strength!
One of my favorite quotes from Captain America, "..Because a strong man, who has known power all his life, will lose respect for that power. But a weak man knows the value of strength, and knows compassion."